I will again say I think you are very much on target here Jim. I was the odd man out a month or two ago and may be again. I just have such a strong feeling about your sitch. I have no doubt that at this point W would do just about anything to get you back. I think that is what you are seeing. What I don't know is, will it last? If you went back now I bet it would not. However if done correctly you may end up with a better M than you ever imagined.

I again compare it to my opioid addiction expietence. I've seen people come to the point I think your W has been brought to. Problem is sometimes it does not stick.

It's for this that you have to play things farther but I really think she is there! Now did she go there willingly? No. Would she be here had she not been caught? No. But let's be honest, how many have we seen caught who are glad it's in the open. We hear of those who want to get caught. They sometimes will say, I'm not giving up the OM or OW. We are not seeing any of that. Problem is we are not seeing what you are.

You keep talking about this new Intel. Are you planning on sharing what that is? I think it would help us to understand and help us to help you. What did you learn that has you this sure? Or at least has you more hopeful?

I really do think she got her wake up call. I think she would ML to you tonight if she could. This is not being faked. I truly believe she feels it all. Again what I don't know is will it last?

Until,I see otherwise I think this is going as best as you could hope. It's still very early and going all in now would be the worst thing you could do. But you know that. I continue to think your IC has a solid handle on it all. Follow what she tells you. I don't think you will go wrong.


DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D