Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

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InFocus - thanks man. Like I said, knowing how common this is helps a lot.

It's been awhile since I updated.
I've had a few sessions with Chuck. A had an R talk with her at his suggestion, where I told her that I knew she was planning on leaving, and that I supported her and would be her biggest fan if not for her leaving me.

Since then things have been a whirlwind. She seemed to soften for a few days, then (apparently) got scared and the pendulum swung the opposite direction.

She's now moved into my second bedroom, and is looking for jobs and for a place to move out to.

I've started GAL in earnest, not reaching out to her unless she contacts me first, and doing my own activities without communicating my schedule to her - but being pleasant and positive when I see her.

We've basically been living like roommates for the last week and a half.
On the plus, I've almost completely stopped snooping, and my sanity and mental well being is much better for it.