WAS vs MLC...not sure it really matters, part 3

[Coly23]

Hey SKM, sorry things still sound to be a bit tough between you and H.

I agree I do not think you are piecing but I think he does especially as he mentions about the wedding rings. Remember he has not had as much advice as you have on what piecing should look like. How can you get him to be on the same page? I'm not sure how I would do it if it as me!

I think you both sound like such sensitive souls. As soon as you feel you have been hurt you both retreat into your shell and wait it out until someone makes a move. You ask why he was bringing your breakfast, making your bed and texting you even if he wasn't talking to you but do you think that was his way of trying to make amends?

However I agree the issue with the female friend is a problem that needs addressing but it's not going to be whilst you both circle around each other. I'm not sure seeing a therapist at this stage is going to help if you are not officially piecing although I think that maybe you both need to have some fun with each other and try and relax a bit!

(((SKM)))