How about you cut out Easter all together for now. Artista said when her husband cancelled their home party she knew he was serious he wasn't playing anymore games.
When you wrote about your W checking the phone logs, my W did the same (she still don't know, I know she was checking up on me.). She was doing reverse number lookups on numbers I was calling. Fortunately they were my friends numbers. But guess what, I still caught her talking to the OM after she was doing that.
You have hope and thats good. You are looking for logic, just like me and all the other LBS, but logic is not what's at play here, it's your WW heart. Her heart is filled with illogical things, her emotions are all over the place, until she comes to you with a change heart, I wouldn't go off what any other person is saying. You need to see the changes for yourself and not heresay.
Let the glasses fall off, you are in a fog as well. You are also like me, because you don't want to lose out to this OM, I think you feel defeated and cant figure out why your W choose him over you (she won't have a answer that Will ever satisfy you). You are fixer like me. Stop trying to fix your Sitch and let the process work itself out. You have to be really patient and give yourself time, not your WW, but yourself. Jim can't fix this by himself, but he can dictate the direction of the train. Stop getting on her train, wait until she get on yours.
Seems to me you are talking to a lot of people about your Sitch and W, give the W talk a break, it's on your mind enough, give the conversation about her a little break. IMO, I think your W will be with you for a long time to come, the question is how will she be with you, and to be honest that answer lies with Jim actions starting now.
Who takes the NCAA title home?
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
