...your W has a side room that she spends most of the day in sleeping, watching TV and smoking correct? That alone is pause for concern and IMO is just not healthy and combined with how her house looks (based on your description) I would say your assessment is probably correct. Love is tough and it's amazing what your willing to accept (I get it) but something tells me the more you get out an experience life and other women you will be better off for it.
That's basically correct, except now she has her own house, but not much has changed.
But she has made it clear, via divorce, that I need worry about her problems no longer. I wish it was that easy. You're right, though, the more I get out, the better off I am. And I think I'm doing pretty well.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17