That escalated quickly; WW's A RESUMES(hoosjim#13)

[Coconut]

Jim, the other part of this is YOU, you need time, YOU need space to reset. A healthy M doesn't start with one person, you both not only need to be pointed in the right direction, you both need to level out first. It is possible to do that while together, albeit painful to do (I'll use Blu as an example here).

You really need to focus on you, you're complete focus has been on her, what she's thinking and doing (completely understandable), but there is a wholeness that comes.with focusing on ones self. If you can truly reach a state of detachment, you will be much more able to renter a healthy R with your W.