So a few days ago you caught her meeting OM. Caught her red-handed, thus proving she has been LYING to you throughout this so-called recon. She's a lying cheater. She lies to you and everyone else. She probably told that BS story to 10 different people on the periphery hoping at least one of them would "secretly" leak it back to you, thus making it appear more genuine. I think she's controlling and manipulating you to the max right now. And hey, I totally get your desire to believe it's genuine, but from the outside looking in I've got to say that nothing about it sounds genuine to me.
