I think, if you have a healthy perspective, you can detect humility... She has to come to you with a humble heart... She has to know that she does not deserve another chance with you... She will come to you on your terms... She won't insist on trying it "her way." She won't be doing things that say, "look at me! I am doing all the right things!" She won't do things for show, like reading a work book so you notice... Like making a point that you know she is using the app to make an IC appt.
I am curious how she is going to address the BFF issue... and do you think she is going to try to get you to join her for Easter? I wonder if she will... I remember our big BD happened about a month before Thanksgiving... I had hoped that we would work things out by then so things would appear normal at Thanksgiving dinner... Short-sighted moi...
