That escalated quickly; WW's A RESUMES(hoosjim#13)

[hoosjim]

And let me expound on this lack of trust and seeming impossibility of ever earning it back again:

Sandi2 and others have said from a WW you need to see consistent behavior change over a period of time. Actions over words. So what does that behavior look like in the case of a WW who is, aside from the illicit cheating and contacting AP, not a ggw or disrespectful? And how do you observe it if you are separated? The running around and cheating youre never going to know about (unless you're having her tailed or tracked or the like, which you shouldn't be doing anyway if you are properly detached.) The going out and ggw I suppose you MIGHT catch wind of if she's doing it, but, if she's not, how would you know? She could just as soon be doing it at places you don't know about. Interactions and demeanor I can see but... what if your WW is (like mine) already desperate and obsequious? Just need to see consistent groveling? That I can see, but the rest of it... how do you know? You certainly can't take her word for it? (I wouldn't).