Finding Solutions, Not Distractions..

[DonH]

Wow, KML, that was my exact reaction! Right or wrong, I'll admit and own it. Now I don't know you from adam but... really... is this just a coincidence? I mean, if someone like's tall blondes, while, yeah, it's a type, there are a whole lot of tall blondes out there. But let's just be honest, most people don't date a different race. Again, right or wrong, it's just the truth. So that set's you apart right there. While it's more common these days, shaved heads are still not as common as blonde women. The names, ah, that's just coincidence. But the others - um, girl, you clearly have a type or at least an attraction to black men with shaved heads. That's just what I see.

Now Coconut, dude... LOL Volunteer firefighters? You're killing me - as yes I was one for nearly 25 years. I loved being a paramedic - not so much a firefighter. Just a whole lot of grunt work. Thing is for every paid FF in the country there are about 7 or 8 volunteers. Thing is, it really, really is as much about social interaction than anything. It really does become a family - both paid and volunteer. Men outnumber women by at least 5:1 and often more. She's going to have guys hitting on her. She just is. But that could be true of all sorts of things she may do.

Thing is, it's just a date. Don't make more out of it than it is. For me, "grinding on me" (your words), fishing for a sleep over, hmmmmmm, sounds like a fun girl, but not wife material. And what-do-ya-know - you are looking for some fun, not a wife. Just take her out. Don't make a bigger deal out if it than needed. Firefighters have been some of my best friends. Some have been my worst friends. It's like everyday life - it's not what they do that matters, it's who they are.