Good morning, hoosjim... I wanted to point something out to you regarding my timeline... The suicide threat episode led to another false start... It was another 9 months before we truly separated... Where H finally said, ENOUGH... that's when it got real... That's when I had to tell family and friends that we were separated... That's when I could no longer just walk into our marital home... I had limited interactions with BBF after suicide episode... But after the final BD, I pretty much cut her out completely...

Do you know if your W is still in constant contact with her BFF?