and I guess there's also the issue of future "normal" domestic arguments, as in how will they escalate (for no apparent, apart from subconscious) reasons? but that of course is a minor aspect I guess you'll have to (once again) go with your gut feeling on all of this all the best

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

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