Well,,condoms do help reduce the likelihood of infection but only if the site of infection isn't on the 'main event". Otherwise a condom is totally useless for protection.
My H asked if I would be open to switch homes with him for a few days. He 'says' he wants to put up his sister and brother-in-law when they come to town and our matrimonial home is spacious and comfortable. He lives in a small 1 bdrm place in sketchy part of town.
I asked if OW was coming as well, and he said no, but said she was coming to visit a couple of weeks later. For many reasons, this doesn't make ANY sense and there isn't a chance in he@@ that he's being truthful with me. She's coming - he was hoping to hang out with her in my house and sleep in my bed - with her.
Not going to happen, of course. I had no idea that MLC could get this crazy.
Yes, it can be that crazy and he was hoping that you would be crazy enough to go along with his request. He can put his family up in a hotel near him. He can either foot the entire bill for the hotel or split it w/them and, better yet, he can sleep on his couch and give them his bed for the time that they are visiting.
I am right there w/you...I wouldn't even think twice in stating flat out not no, but h@ll no.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I doubt the sister and BIL have any such plans to visit. It's just the OW but he couldn't say that now, could he? So transparent, so disgusting, so disrespectful. I might never speak to him again just for suggesting such a thing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Quick question.. if wife is a stay at home mom and she is having A and complete WW mindset.. so i kick her out? We have two children and shes not stopping...
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Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
