That escalated quickly; WW's A RESUMES(hoosjim#13)

[hoosjim]

You and your w need to become whole again before you can have a healthy M. My suggestions do very much apply to you, but if you don't want them just say so and I will go back into lurker mode.

Nope, don't go. Very much agree with this first sentence. W is most certainly not "whole" and I am not so arrogant to think that I am, either, at least not yet. I still do have a component of rage/anger in particular lurking around that I need to tame.

And I don't disagree all that much with the body of your work... just one or two things. And that's one of the things that makes this forum so valuable. If there were just one perspective it would be so much more difficult for folks to find one that fits their sitch the best.

Thanks again! And keep posting, please!





And, BTW, ima see if I can obtain a cryogenic freeze chamber or something and just put myself in hibernation on the 23rd of each month. Had some real bad 23rds in this deal. In fact, all of my worst days, with the exception of the drunken May disaster last year, have been on 23rds:

1/23/17--BD1
5/23/17--Burner phone found (I think)
6/23/17--Have to go back and look this up but pretty sure its something.
7/23/17--Burner phone 2 found, I "walk" for first time
8/23/17-- my meltdown after W's late day...where I think in retrospect she may have actually had lunch date with OM
12/23/17--Worst day of Christmas season-- W has anomalous and unexplained weekend trip to office and then "drives by" OM's hangout
3/23/18--I discover the office phoncons with OM-- likely the setup for the gym meet-up and BD2

Seriously, man, the 23rd flat-out $ucks.