Fair enough, but just know that I say living for you is the only way, because I lived it, I felt it, i recognized when I got to the point that I could actually reconcile with my ex. I'm not saying it because Im a scorned LBS who is no longer pro-M.

You and your w need to become whole again before you can have a healthy M. My suggestions do very much apply to you, but if you don't want them just say so and I will go back into lurker mode.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized