V, the way you write is like reading a book of poetry, not the rhyming kind, but the kind that comes together when you least expect it. I'll be honest, I don't always get the meaning behind some of your posts, but I do enjoy reading them.
Anyway, keep paddling furiously under water, just make sure that your beak keeps pointing towards the most important destination and that you're not going in circles. Getting to one place and crossing that off the list has a remarkable way of removing burden from how many other places you must paddle to.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized