Gordie. Two dates. Wow. The second one sounded like it went really well.
Be patient she is making baby steps right now. You remember the DR book. What small step would you need or like to see in the next month or so to show that you are on the right track to reaching your goal?
Keep it up, to me it looks like it is working.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.