Jim, really sorry you're going through this. The bottom line is your W is a lying cheater. You have that info laid out before you in stark black-and-white, there is nothing at all vague or unclear about it. I've got to say I fully support the Doodler 2 step plan outlined above. Do that and your W may hit rock bottom and finally come to you with a humble spirit. Right now she's not humble at all, she's a child who is pitching a crying jag of a fit because she's not getting her way. She's trying to manipulate you back into the status quo. Don't do it.