I have been very careful not to trash talk H to the kids. I want them to have their own relationship with him. Unfortunately the boys have never really had a good relationship with him. I continue to encourage them to reach out to him, regardless of what H does.
Great, that's all you can do. Well done.
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As far as counseling, we did talk about that the other day, D13 asked if she could talk to someone. So I will work on getting that in place for her this week.
Since she is a minor, is that something that I should inform H?
That's great as well. I would inform him as a courtesy. Just say she's been struggling with things and you are arranging for her to talk to a counselor and you just wanted to let him know.
