One other thing that seems odd to me (but maybe it's normal for WAS). H didn't take a single sentimental item when he moved. There arecertain things that were his mom's (she died when he was 17), that he has kept close to him since before we were married. And things from the kids to him, pictures of the kids, he left them here. The only thing he took was toiletries, clothes, and fishing gear.
That can be hard to interpet... mostly because he acts like he has his OWN place but still comes to M home when he feels necessary. He is living in both worlds so there isn't a need to haul these items out of the house yet?
Maybe that will change you place some boundaries with him on not coming and going as he pleases?
