I do agree that what he did was wrong but you've got to be very careful here. He is their dad and even though he is a bad one, he is their only one. So be very careful about trash-talking him or encouraging them to. Not sure what your financial situation is but if possible, please check into counseling for the kids.
I have been very careful not to trash talk H to the kids. I want them to have their own relationship with him. Unfortunately the boys have never really had a good relationship with him. I continue to encourage them to reach out to him, regardless of what H does.
As far as counseling, we did talk about that the other day, D13 asked if she could talk to someone. So I will work on getting that in place for her this week.
Since she is a minor, is that something that I should inform H?
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
