Jim, I hear the all too familiar anger in your post. I hope you use this anger for a positive change in your life. Anger is an energy and we must use it for constructive purposes.

Don't make any rash decisions in this state unless you are just sure. You will feel different down the line.

I know this stinks having just let your guard down. Hang in there. doodler's spot on. Time for them to feel some loss.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.