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Originally Posted By: Btrow
You are in for a long ride.


I know...it feels like it's been forever though, i just never would of imagined in a million years that this would be my life, i can't dwell on my W too much, my kids need me and i will not let them down.

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Thank You! I need to hear these things...i know sending the letter is a bad idea but sometimes (usually at night) my emotions overwhelm me...i really don't know where i'd be without this website

Everytime i'm about to make a mistake i log-in and either post or read through various threads. Sandi, once again thanks for the reality check!

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It's a very good idea to discuss with the board whatever you are feeling......and especially, when you feel a strong desire to tell her.

I think it would help you to read the threads about the WW's mindset. It may be difficult to accept, b/c you love her. But at the same time, you would see what you are really dealing with.

Here's the link to the first one.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554


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How is your week going?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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Originally Posted By: Btrow
You are in for a long ride.


I know...it feels like it's been forever though, i just never would of imagined in a million years that this would be my life, i can't dwell on my W too much, my kids need me and i will not let them down.


Hey Swagger, sorry to hear you are in this situation but I can totally relate to it as I find myself in the same exact position. I worked very hard in life to get to where I am (college degrees, beautiful wife, kids, and house). I did not expect this curve ball but now see how I contributed. I think the journey will be a long one, I dont know how it will end but feel it is worth taking...one day at a time. Good luck and I look forward to following your post.


Me:37 W:42
T:14 yrs M:10.5 yrs
D:7 D:5
BD: 1/6/18 OM Discovered: 1/29/18
WW moved out 5/12/18
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