Thank you DNJ and Kitcat for your words of support. I will look for those books.
As far as H coming up to visit at the house anymore, I'm not going to allow him to. He is nothing but angry when he comes anyway, and this last time shows he is only thinking of himself. It does more harm to the kids than good.
I just can't get over that H is soooo angry. And the more I detach, the angrier he gets.
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
