Well, I did it. Went to the house picked up my suit and a couple other odds and ends. Also went over my son's task and therapy chart with him for the week. This is from my son who has Tourette's syndrome.
Wife was a wreck. Swollen eyes, still sobbing from time to time. And steadily is I left. The only thing I said to her was a casual "hey" with a little head nod up as I entered the bedroom. She was wearing a shirt of mine that she had always said was her favorite. Maybe part of an act, maybe not, who knows at this point.
Left without otherwise engaging were talking to her. Told son that I love him gave him a hug and said he could call me that I was not staying far away. I did not mention bring up or push the issue of her leaving the house right then and there. Sun Number Two was close by in the Next Room. She knows what I told her and what I expected of her in that regard, and I will discuss it further with the counselor tomorrow before I bring it up with wife again. But I do not intend to back down from my stance on that one.
I did have a moment of intense anger directed at the OM. I mean I know my wife has been a willing participant in this, but if that son of a b**** and just left her alone after I warned him off in August... I've never wanted to punch anyones lights out so much in my entire life
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3