The forum is circling around you giving you the best advice possible. You have your W in a spot most LBS dream about. She is on her heels. Make her work. Let her do the work. If she wants to be with you she will find a way to work out the things she knows you want from her.
Please don't try to save her from this. I have been following all weekend.
You have to let go and let her go. You are still attached. Detach and make her show you she has changed. When she is ready, you want have to ask her to do the things you want, she will come to you and let you know and show you the changes she made.
Your W knows in her heart she wont be able to keep you and BFF in her life. One has to go! And losing you IMO is not an option for her.
Your W BFF is a WW, her hanging out or getting advice from her while she is still WW is the equivalent of a recovering drug addicted hanging out and getting advice from a friend still using drugs.
I'm in agreement with Ginger, you do a lot of talking, I think you not talking will send a huge message. You not reaching for her will send another huge message. I read what Artista has said about her own journey and it seems like she is giving you the playbook and a script for your own Sitch in some ways. Please use it.
We are behind you!
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
