I have been away for the weekend, but I have been following along on my phone. You’ve got the best of the best here, and 2 former wayward wives here giving you the best of the best advice.
You still seem afraid of chasing her away. She’s betrayed your trust when you have been more than gracious and she took advantage of your good will and you still seem afraid you are going to do something that will make her go.
You need to make a huge 180. That 180 that would be most effective at this point is using as few words as possible. There really is nothing to say right now. You are so incredibly wordy, that when you are not, it’s going to get a very strong point across. Otherwise, she will not take you seriously again.
You should have nothing to say to her at this point. Let her squirm. Let her go to MC. Do not go. YOU don’t need an emergency session. She thinks she can make up for going behind your back with an emergency session?
It’s time to make the big changes, Jim. You are worthy of more
