it seems to be everyone's opinion here, that would be perfectly fine, and even the good move to make sure I tell her that I think that she has a problem problems that she needs to work out on her own, and let her compulsive and repeated returns to the OM are evidence of that.
Who thinks this is a good idea? Not I... Not DonH... Don't tell her all that. Either have MC tell her that or simply say, "something is not right with you and I can't help you fix it, and I can't be here while you fix it."
That's it... Even that is too wordy... Don't talk to her about her patterns and OM... AND if you do say what I actually suggested, you say right before you part ways... No discussion about it... No explanation from her...
