Which brings me to this last piece: your W is broken. She really is. She's trying to not be and trying to hold it together but she is broken and needs to get fixed. Like with drug addiction, the first hurdle is admitting the addiction. Your W needs to first admit she needs help. She's acting in a very broken manner. She doesn't know what she wants. Seems to want what she doesn't have. She's looking at and using everyone.
This is valuable insight... DonH is right... After the final confrontation, H told me something was wrong with me, and I needed to fix it without him.
