I think it's too soon to go home, and definitely too soon to talk with her, too soon to listen to her. And too soon for meeting with MC... Let her take the spot by herself.

She has not felt the loss. The first day is scary... She is in self-preservation mode.. not marriage preservation yet. She wants to talk to make you understand why she did what she did. She has no excuse, but she thinks she does because of her WW mentality...

Don't let her back in... It's too soon...