WW's A ended, Now piecing(?) but slow, thread #12

[hoosjim]

So, at some point, I'm going to have to actually talk to her about the arrangements. When we first had the confrontation earlier today, I told her that I wanted her out by the end of the week. Of course that's when she was all desperate and clingy and just wanted to talk and say she was sorry.

But it will have to be addressed. I really really really really really would prefer not to have to leave my own house since I did nothing freaking wrong. What if she refuses, what she very well might, particularly with BFF in her corner cheering her on.

Anyone have any advice on how to handle this issue? As in, when should I be open to discussing it with her and how I should handle it? I can tell her I want her gone until I'm blue in the face, but I can't force her.

There's also the pending issues of the counseling sessions. Unless BFF talks her into simply bolting immediately, I am assuming wife will push the issue of getting together to talk with the marriage counselor. I have told her that I am not interested in talking right now. But she's liable to keep pushing it. Who knows, maybe she even believes it's what she wants.

I definitely don't want in house separation. How long do U Pros reckon we would have to be separated before she came crawling back if she ever did come crawling back. And it pretty much would have to be completely crawling back well I don't see how I can buy it. And maybe not even then.