Jim
take it from me, brother, you are an inspiration to all of us a few steps behind you in the journey, especially those of us belonging to that unwanted subgroup of the affair having gone deeper underground and waiting for our own smoking guns.

more power to you, you're doing great!

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains