More updates (sorry, my phone died, and I have no charger, no car, etc.)

Anyhoo, after she left, I went back to bar. Ate and closed my tab. MC contacted me and said W had reached out to her and I said basically "fine, she's your patient just like I am, so if she wants to see you for treatment that's great. But for now, I am done. And you can indicate as much to her. Don't know how I would ever trust her."

Also, somewhere in that same time frame, and I am uncertain if it was before or after she contacted the marriage counselor, but wife fairly quickly interfaced with BFF.( I checked the cell phone log online) that's a relationship that is going to lead her no we're good, but she's just going to have to figure that out on her own.

Subsequently, she sent me a series of text saying she really wanted to talk and could she come buy me a drink. I did not respond. As I was walking down the street away from the pub, she drove up next to me, and honked, and then pulled into the driveway in front of me and rolled down the passenger side window. I approached, held up my hand palm out, didn't give her a chance to talk, and just said "with all the disrespect you have shown me, show me dome respect now by going away and giving me my space". ..and then I turned and walked away. That was 330. Haven't seen or heard from her since. Walked to target and bought a phone charger and power pack.

I can stay at hotel tonight but I have no clean clothes or toiletries, and tomorrow I will need my meds (there are a couple that I cant just stop cold turkey.) What's the best way to handle going back for that stuff?

Last edited by Cadet; 03/24/18 09:49 PM.

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