Just my two cents - I think you need to get away from her for the day - likely weekend minimum. It sounds like you are both in the same Uber going to the bar? I don't think that will work. She will do the same thing all over again. She needs to prove to you she is done and win you back. Otherwise she will promise you everything - just like last time, wait until things calm down and then repeat it all over again.
I think you need to disappear then come home tonight. Don't let her think you have left town or anything - just that you don't want to talk to her right now.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D