No, you should not work longer days. You should go out and have fun at night after your meal with the family. We call it, getting a life (GAL). Leave her home with kids, and you go have fun.

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What i cant take a way from my WW?


Why do you think you cannot remove affection, attention, and support? Why do you think you cannot remove illusion of happy family? Only give financial support for kids and house.

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My focus goals are:
1. Make second flat ready for living (possibility to move there if separation take place).
2. Focus on my kids, much more than before.
3. Perform better at work.
Detach as much as possible.
4. Decrease/avoid snooping.


Very good!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!