I also plan on telling her I do not intend to lie to my boys they deserve to know the truth about their father and mother. Maybe not the Grim gory details. But they deserve to know why. And that I tried.
Why are you so persistent in bringing up the kids, at the same time you bust her? Oh.......wait, I remember. That's why she backed off last time. She didn't wanted the boys knowing the truth.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
