Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 12, D on hold

[PsySara]

So things are hanging in limbo for 6 more days. If WH doesn't respond to the served papers then I file for default and things proceed forward. I received an email that the court date for the case management in mid April (we have to present our financial affidavit, the parenting course and I provide proof that DD7 has been registered for a special divorce parent class.) It's actually scheduled on my birthday, kind of mixed feelings about that.

WH continues to act like a controlling but lazy @ss. He tried to pick a fight about the sliding glass door again. HE said it wasn't "locked" properly, I had already pulled on it very hard. Of course when I tried to point out that it was definitely locked he snapped at me and then stomped out of the room and went to bed. I can't wait for him to no longer be here, I will be able to relax in my own home.

As far as I can tell he has not gone to a lawyer or even opened the mail from the family court. He's in a for a NASTY surprise if thinks the judge will be lenient on him about not having his documentation or work done before the court date. Of course he doesn't even know about the court date because he has not opened his mail. I've made an appointment with my CPA to get my financial affidavit prepared before the court date. I signed up DD7 for her class (it's 4 days before the court date) and I've done my online parenting class. I just want this to be over with, I can honestly say I've tried everything in the book to save this marriage but can't force WH to do the right thing.