Originally Posted By: hoosjim


Its like she doesn't want to admit that things could be done better or differently because that would mean she'd been "wrong" about something.


there have been a few times where people have said it seems like she doesn't want to admit she is wrong... i do not believe that is the case... i think it's that she does not want to stop doing what she is doing... she doesn't want to check with you to see if you have plans for her birthday... she doesn't want to give up the wine hourS at work... she doesn't want to wear her wedding ring... she doesn't want to stop borderline inappropriate behavior with Doc... she wants the freedom to go see BFF every few months... she wants to keep some of that single-gal lifestyle...

even if you are wrong about her being in touch with OM at this time, she still has these desires, and she still has the attitude that goes with these desires, and it's a WW attitude... and that there is the thing... she is still thinking like a WW woman... it is evident in her interactions with you during and after the office wine social, and the discussion after the gym...