Ive just read your last few posts I honestly don't know how to handle it but wanted to say I think you are doing great-
Interesting how FIL encouraged you to move on-and good to hear he has found a better life and adjusted-
Must be hard for him to relive the whole thing again-
It does seem to be genetic in some ways and my XHs father also had MLC and M a younger woman-although no one really talked about it-and I never met his dad or spoke to him although he was alive for the first 5 years of our M
The answers will come and doing nothing is ok until you know- Hang in there
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