Originally Posted By: hoosjim
THIS:

Today when we were talking by phone on her ride in, she was very down-sounding (as opposed to the very spunky up-sounding she had been Wednesday night when I am pretty sure she talked to OM and perhaps even saw him) ...

AND THEN THIS:

I have been VERY warm and engaging and loving-- and open with the touching. If I all of a sudden back off on that she's going to know something's wrong or that I suspect.


she may suspect that you know something, which is could be why her mood is down... my H told me i had tell-tale signs that he became aware of... and my H also had tell-tale signs that told me when he was aware of something... it's all nuiances... you both know each other really well... you are able to notice subtle degrees in distinction of verbiage and behavior in one another...

--artista