So sorry mate must be really hard, truly feel for you.
If there is any positives here it’s that old saying “building a house on a foundation of sand”, she’s still wayward but something between the pair of them caused her to have doubts!
These doubts will re-surface and with a vengeance, let it happen go out and get a great life; theirs will slowly erode.
Easy to say I know.
Gutted.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".