Pinn, Sotto, bttrfly, thank you so much for chiming in. I appreciate it.
Would you believe that we aren't even negotiating yet? Nope. This is all in reference to things he's demanding before all disclosures have been made and before any attempt at negotiating and settling.
It's crazy.
here's a fake example- him putting in a court order to make me agree that I do not want spousal support and will permanently agree that I want zero support from him. then his supplement arguments about why I specifically don't deserve spousal support....... Ie- I have a masters degree and I can support myself. And he was there with me while I got that masters degree and he emotionally suffered as a result. And then, I must have excess finances because I go to the gym and gym memberships cost money.
Meanwhile, in this fake scenario, he's also trying to get spousal support from me even though his earning potential was far greater due to the fact that he was older and made 5x more than me.
That's a terrible fake example.... But that is what I'm dealing with at all levels. I have 3 court dates in the span of 4 weeks to deal with this type of nonsense.
