Dearest V,
The shame isn't yours, it's his for causing such harm to another.

Healing takes time. You are one of the most courageous people here. You may be afraid, but you face it down and get on with life.

Are you better than you were yesterday? A month ago? Last year? Healing is a marathon, not a sprint.

From my perspective, you're amazing!

xoxoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver