Hi Cil, I'm sorry this guy wasn't a fit for you. Sounds like it hasn't been an easy time, but also some learning there about what current you likes - which is good!

I agree with KML about looking at your ex and feeling nostalgic. That is just a temporary emotional reaction would be my view. And when in any doubt - do nothing and let the emotions and the moment pass.

Invest in friends, work, activities, family and you. And if you choose to remain out there on the dating scene, well fair enough. You sound like an attractive, kind and intelligent woman - what's not to like my lovely??!!

Xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus