[quote]I said well nothing seems to be changing so over the next month we will just be further apart
Keep me straight here. Why the timeframe of a month. Were you referring to her moving out in a month? How did she respond when you made that statement?
Yes, I was referring to her leaving around the end of April. When I said that to her, she calmly said "I can now if you want but it will be much harder" (her dad works shift work and is currently living there and won't be to camp until the end of the month). Then the kids came around, she felt the conversation was starting to loop back in a circle any ways so we went on with our separate tasks. At times I wish she would go sooner but I know the inlaws would get told I kicked her out during this difficult time and I added more stress and shows how I'm still selfish not caring about her health and stress,etc etc. I would be the bad person so I told myself I can ride it out another month. On the opposite view, I wonder if the time she is how many improvements she's seen. I have never asked her but she made the comment about me staying home with the girls two days in a row last week in snow days when I didn't need to (i work for my family's small business and she has in the past stayed home on snow days because she gets 4 times more paid leave than I do. I only have 5 personal days). I told her yes, I have made some changes and my old self is gone. (I am now putting my family first before work as opposed to before they got equal attention).
Me:37 W:42 T:14 yrs M:10.5 yrs D:7 D:5 BD: 1/6/18 OM Discovered: 1/29/18 WW moved out 5/12/18
