I am just saying, if it was presented differently, she may have understood a little better. You were a bit PA and dancing around things. Which is exactly how I handle things and I am working on, so it's not a judgement. So, I do wonder if maybe her response would have been different if it was presented differently is all.
Sure, she should want to make you feel comfortable. ANd I don't think your boundaries are unreasonable at all. I think she still waivers between the "I want to be married, but I also want to do what I want to do without being made to feel guilty"
