Congrats on still being an ex-smoker, brother. I wish I could say the same. I will get there slowly.

As far as her anger, you just have to roll with the punches and realize that it isn't you.

xW used to do that to me when she didn't get her way, and I excplicitly called her out on it. "You know, I am just going to point out that you only get mad at me when you don't get your way. I don't do that to you, and I will continue to stand my ground. You can either get mad and throw a fit when you don't get what you want, or we can work together as adults"

Her behavior has since changed when she doesn't get her way.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017