Two other quick addenda since i was stream of conscience-ing.
W did, when she got home, ask me "How do i use this telemedicine app to make an appointment with the MC for an IC session" Now, i am reasonably sure she knows how to use the app, almost seemed to me like a "Okay, i screwed up, now look what a good girl i am being." idunno. She did make the appointment, for next week.
She didn't "go to sleep angry" came over to middle of bed and snugged with me some.
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Simple and direct. NO mistakes made on how you feel about this, and what your boundaries are.
Try not to be such a lawyer the next time;)
Okay, but shouldn't i be miffed at her for being defensive and whatever instead of "Oh, wow, hoosjim, i'm sorry that this is hurting you... what can i do to make this better" or "What can we do to make this work."
Its like she doesn't want to admit that things could be done better or differently because that would mean she'd been "wrong" about something.
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