Thanks JJ I don't really know what to expect. I am trying really hard to stay out of her head space and keep her at arms length.

I know what LH said is completely accurate I just don't know yet how far she is wanting to take it. With that said it is not going to stop me from moving forward. If she thinks that by being nicer, wanting to do more things together as a family, and warming up to me in general, etc. that it will stop me then she is mistaken. I just try to take it day by day and leave it at that. Continue to be a good co-parent and keep it to finances and kid related conversations.

Our Daughters are singing in Church this Sunday and she wants to attend. Last time she did not. I gave her a couple of different options of what she could do, 1 of which was show up, watch them sing and leave. She chose the option of watching them sing and staying for Church as a family (even included a smiley face at the end). I just responded with an Ok sounds good.

If she is trying to bait me or test me it won't work. I won't break rank. I am not that weak any more.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018