I read your posts on another thread and was concerned.
Anger, is fantastic, please please don't knock it.
I know it's tough, and I am always so pleased to read on a posters thread that anger is present. It is a gift, it marks a new stage in the Kubler Ross cycle. Use it, that white anger can drive you on, give you motivation, create real shift. Shift not change, change can change back. Shift is forever.
The aspect of anger to lose is red or green or blue. They represent red rage (with fear), green vengence (with disgust) and blue loathing (with sadness). Anger which is pure is justified and motivating. Diamond bright.
Next secrets. I know that you feel that silence is best, but for many reasons it isn't. Please continue to be upfront with your children about your WH A. They already know it's important and trust they know already. Speculation is worse, and silence undermines your credibility. Your children don't need to know details but they can be told.
It's authentic and will make you credible. Secrets scar.
My thoughts brave lady
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
